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Abstinence Education Initiative

Abstinence FAQ

While the number of teens engaging in sexual activity has been gradually decreasing during the past decade, there is still great cause for concern. Each teen that engages in sexual activity prior to adulthood, dramatically increases their chances for pregnancy and sexually-transmitted diseases. In addition, youth who begin having sex at a younger age are exposed to these risks over a longer period of time. They are also more likely to have more sexual partners which also heightens their risk.

As a result, IYD has played an active role in endorsing a comprehensive risk avoidance message which includes sexual abstinence. It has developed an Abstinence Education Initiative that will help educators, abstinence professionals, prevention specialists and other youth development workers manage prevention programs more effectively by providing technical assistance and access to information and research about sexual abstinence and health.

Many of the questions listed below are based on original research that the Institute for Youth Development has completed. This publication is titled America’s Youth: Measuring the Risk and is available for purchase from IYD.

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abstinence

What is the IYD definition of sexual abstinence?

IYD supports a comprehensive approach to sexual abstinence. In fact, we believe that the abstinence approach should apply to all risk behaviors associated with the use of alcohol, drugs, tobacco and violence. Our research indicates that early sexual debut is inextricably linked with these four risk behaviors, and that teens who avoid all five risk behaviors improve their chances of avoiding the lifelong consequences that can result from participation.

Is an abstinence approach effective?

IYD believes that abstinence is indeed an effective approach to addressing adolescent sexuality. This message is being embraced by teens throughout the nation as evidenced by the 2001 Centers for Disease Control Youth Surveillance Survey. This survey indicated that 54% of teens have not had sex as compared to 45% in 1990. So, the survey indicates that teens are choosing to abstain from sexual activity. (1) This year, the CDC reported that birth rates for unmarried teenagers continued to decline. (2) Teens that choose abstinence are totally protected from the consequences that can dramatically alter their lives and their futures.

What are some of the key factors behind a teenagers decision to abstain from sexual intercourse?

Teenagers who perceive that they have a better level of communication with their parents are less likely to engage in sexual intercourse. Teens’ increase in age and decrease in communication with parents increase the risk of engaging in sexual intercourse.

In addition, teen/mother relationships have a significant impact on decision-making. Studies show that if a teen has a high level of satisfaction with the relationship they have with their mother and knows that the mother disapproves of premarital sex, they are less likely to participate in sexual activity. Teens who reported a low level of satisfaction with their mother were more than twice as likely as those highly satisfied with their relationship to be having sexual intercourse.

It is also interesting to note that when surveyed, teens have a strong opinion about the guidance they receive about sexual activity. Teens who choose to abstain from sexual activity believe it is important to be given a strong message from society that they should abstain from sex until they are at least out of high school.

How does the age at first intercourse impact a person’s number of partners over a lifetime?

Age at first intercourse has a strong association with the number of sexual partners a person has over a lifetime. The earlier a teen participates in sexual activity, the greater number of partners they are likely to have over a lifetime. In addition, the greater number of partners a person has, the greater the risk of contracting sexually-transmitted diseases such as HIV/AIDS.

What teen population is more heavily impacted by STDs?

Teens are a high behavioral risk for acquiring most STD’s when they are sexually active. Studies have shown that teens 15-19 years of age accounted for 33% of STD cases. Young women are biologically more susceptible to chlamydia, gonorrhea, and HIV. Research has also shown that an older sex partner poses a greater risk for HIV because they are more likely to have had multiple partners, to have had more varied sexual and drug use experiences, and to be infected with HIV than same-age adolescent sex partners.

What can I do to address these issues with my teenager?

Communication is key to the parent/teen relationship. Our research has revealed that parent/child “connectedness” protects youth. Adolescents thrive in an environment with high expectations where they are given firm direction and consistent messages by a parent or an adult mentor to whom they feel a close connection. Not surprisingly, the Federally-sponsored National Longitudinal Study on Adolescent Health (also known as Add Health) found that family connections protect teenagers from harm. When researchers surveyed more than 90,000 teenagers, they found that when children feel loved and cared for by their parents, they are less likely to engage in risk behaviors. So, we believe you should talk to your teens and engage in behaviors that make them feel loved and cared for.

Are there other actions I can take to ensure my teen continues to abstain from sexual activity?

There are quite a few actions you can take to support your teenager. Teens who are engaged in school and learning and who participate in extracurricular projects and sports, volunteering or religious activities are less likely to engage in risky sexual behaviors.(3) Also, be cognizant of your child’s peers. Encourage him/her to maintain friendships with other teens who do not engage in risk-related behaviors. Last, but not least, spend time with your teen doing things they like to do. Use this time to communicate about what’s important in your teen’s life and convey clear, consistent messages about avoiding sex.

(1) Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, “Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance – United States, 2001,” Morbidity and Mortality Report, June 18, 2002.

(2) Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, “Births: Final Data for 2000,” NVSR Volume 50, No. 5. 104 pp. (PHS) 2002-1120, http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/releases/02news/womenbirths.htm.

(3) Manlove,J., Terry-Humen, E., Papillo,A.R., Franzetta,K., Williams, S., & Ryan, S. (200, Mary); Pareventing teenage pregnancy, childbearing, and sexually-transmitted diseases: What the research shows. Research Brief. Washington, DC: Child Trends.

 

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